Friday, February 24, 2012

Little Man Milestones


My youngest nephew Joshua is 5 years old today. I still remember so clearly being in the US in the middle of a security training on what to do if you’re working in the field and civil war breaks out, or you’re kidnapped or a typhoon wipes out the village. My sister Sara texted that despite it being a month before her expected due date, they were heading to the hospital because there was no stopping the little boy from coming out! Joshua Mark was born a few hours later, and I cannot believe he’s now 5 years old. Josh is such a great kid. He is so smart  and has the most amazing imagination. He is funny too and is constantly coming up with hysterical oneliners. Last month when we were in Manila Josh was looking for his cousin and said, "Hey, where's blondie?!" Haha. Love you Josh! Happy birthday little man!!

Joshua with his mom, my sister Sara


One of Luke's first photos with his cousin Joshua


Taken on Joshua's 4th birthday - love this photo!


Josh is an amazing kuya to his baby cousin


Another major milestone recently accomplished is that Luke is a full-fledged walker now. He’s been sort of walking for months but never for very great distances without having someone or something to hold on to. But he’s let go of his fear and is now toddling around everywhere. So excited that my little man is walking!!


Can I really do this walking thing??


 Why yes, I can!!

Monday, February 20, 2012

Happy Shopping Experience


While Puerto Princesa has many virtues, shopping options on the island are rather limited. I know a lot of you would argue that this lack of retail establishments is a virtue, and generally I would agree. I miss a lot of things about NYC but I don’t miss how consumer-driven it is. However, I do still very much enjoy the occasional shopping trip, and I like getting cute stuff for my boy. So I was super happy a few months ago when my friend NiƱa introduced me to the fabulous online store Mothering Earthlings. I loved the cute things available on the site and enjoy reading the owner, Rone Guerrero’s blog about her adventures with her “earthlings”.

In anticipation of our upcoming vacation in Cape Town, South Africa, I just ordered Luke a pair of shoes (he generally goes barefoot here but CT will be much cooler than Palawan) as well as a travel pillow for the long plane rides. I was excited to find the package waiting for me when I got home from running errands today. And happily, Luke has also enjoyed this shopping experience. He’s been playing with the box and paper packaging his new shoes came in for the last 45 minutes. I know there’s a Mastercard Priceless ad in here but I want to get this blog uploaded before Luke looses interest.

Anyway, the next time you need great kids stuff, check out Mothering Earthlings. They deliver internationally, too.


In the meantime, some photos of the little man enjoying his “toys”:                  



Thursday, February 16, 2012

Water Baby!

Our little love, Lucas, was born on the island paradise of Palawan, and started swimming pretty early on. He was 3 months old when he had his first swim in a pool, and 4 months old for his first dip in the ocean. He's very fair-skinned so we have to be careful about covering him up, but I love that he is a water baby and loves splashing around, whether in a bathtub, a pool or the ocean. We recently spent some time in Taytay, Palawan, and Marcus got this fantastic shot of Luke with his fishy friends. So blessed to live in Palawan!!





Earlier shots of our little water baby:


First swim in a pool at 3 months old:

First dip in the ocean at 4 months old:

Just chillin':

Saturday, February 11, 2012

No Means… Nose?


My baby boy is 14 months old and has a pretty limited vocabulary. He pretty much only knows how to say “dada” and “dog”. Recently though, he has started showing some signs of understanding words describing parts of the face. In particular, he seems to understand the word nose. When you ask where his nose is, he points to his.

The other day I was making coffee while keeping an eye on Luke and I suddenly realized he was sticking his fingers in a socket. I said “Luke, NO!” very forcefully and he immediately stopped what he was doing, looked at me, and stuck his finger up his nose. He does this now every time someone says “no”. “No” apparently means sticking one’s finger up one’s nose.

On the bright side, when we say “no”, at least his nose picking interrupts whatever naughty or dangerous thing he was doing that we wanted him to stop. 



Friday, February 10, 2012

Feature on DharmaDreams Yummy Mummy Series

My friend Monica is doing a series on her "yummy mummy" friends and this week she's featured me :)
Check it out: http://dharmadream.blogspot.com/2012/02/yummy-mummy-ami-swanepoel.html
Thanks Monica!

Wednesday, February 8, 2012

Alice Burton Potter

My aunt Marty wrote this obituary...



Alice B. Potter, daughter, scholar, wife, physician, mother, grandmother, great grandmother, and elder left this world, at  99  years, on February 7, 2012

She was born in 1912 in Seattle, WA, to Louis Burton and Lela Reinert Burton. When she was two years old, the family moved east to Detroit, MI where she lived all of her childhood, youth, and much of her adulthood. She went to the Liggett School in Detroit and then Swarthmore College, Swarthmore, PA, graduating in 1934. As a young girl her father had asked her what she thought she would like to do with her life, and when she answered she thought she might like to be a nurse, he said that was fine, but why not be a doctor? She thought that was a good idea.

A pioneer, as a 1938 female graduate of the University of Michigan Medical School, she kept her medical head about her almost until the end of her life. She gave “iron shots” to neighbors in the 1950s and counsel and comfort to her assisted living neighbors into 2012.

She had many friends, co-workers, and compatriots. She fully supported her husband’s career as an attorney, in Detroit, her three children’s aspirations wherever they led, and, perhaps most enthusiastically, the strengths of her grandchildren and many great grandchildren all over the world. She followed their activities in the Philippines, California, Washington State, Michigan, and Massachusetts, and loved their parents. Within a truly intercultural and international family, she was central in her own unobtrusive way.  In 2008, she was convinced to move from AZ to VT to be near her family. They and all their family visitors are forever enriched by her time here.

She was predeceased by her husband, Ray L. Potter, of Sun City, AZ, in 1993 and her son, Louis B. Potter of Chicago, IL in 1997. She is survived by her two daughters, Susan P. Evangelista, of Palawan, Philippines, and her husband Oscar, and Martha P. Dewees, and her husband Donald, of North Ferrisburgh, VT, her devoted daughter-in-law Juanita Wright Potter of Chicago, IL, 9 beloved grandchildren, and 13 great grandchildren, global citizens of the world.

According to her wishes, there will be no funeral. A private gathering will take place at the Lodge at Otter Creek at a later time. The family thanks with enormous appreciation and admiration, the many staff at the Lodge at Otter Creek, Middlebury, VT for their bright smiles, friendship, and incredibly diligent care, especially in the last weeks; Dr. Brian Kim, retinologist, FAHC for the understanding and treatment that allowed her to read, a cherished activity, until almost until the end; Patty Lewis, A.P.R.N., nurse practitioner, of Bristol for her time, kindness, and good humor, Hospice volunteers who provided respite, and especially Kathy Laframboise, R.N., of Addison County Home Health and Hospice, for her boundless compassion, honesty, and good will without which we would be bereft.

Donations may be made in her memory to Addison County Home Health and Hospice or Hospice Volunteer Services. Stephen C. Gregory of Shelburne is in charge of arrangements.


Tuesday, February 7, 2012

Lola Alice

My beloved Lola Alice died today. She was 99 and would have turned 100 this November.
She was an amazing mother and grandmother, and so loved by so many.
I love her so much and will miss her so. 








Roots of Health is looking for a Midwife

Roots of Health / Ugat ng Kalusugan is hiring! We are looking for a Midwife to join our team. If you know of anyone who is qualified and might be interested, please share this information. Thanks so much.





SEEKING: MIDWIFE

Roots of Health /Ugat ng Kalusugan is a nonprofit organization focused on improving the health of women and girls, and their communities, in Puerto Princesa, Palawan, in the Philippines.  We aim to increase the reproductive health and overall well-being of women and girls, and decrease malnutrition in babies and young children.

Roots of Health empowers women and girls to secure their right to health and freedom from violence, and to support and protect the health and well-being of their children. Our activities are guided by the international human rights framework, which includes a core belief that health is a human right; these activities are carried out using a community-based approach. 

Position Summary

Ugat ng Kalusugan is hiring for a Midwife to provide direct clinical services and education to the women and children that the organization serves. This is a part-time position with the possibility of becoming full-time after a two-month probation period.  Part-time salary range of P4,500 – P6,000 per month depending on experience and skills.

Responsibilities

  • Be on call and assist with home deliveries among pregnant Ugat ng Kalusugan clients who choose to give birth at home. Have experience and training in recognizing delivery complications and know when to refer a client to an OB-GYN or to a hospital or lying in clinic.

  • Conduct check-ups for women and girls in Ugat ng Kalusugan program sites. This includes carrying out pap smears, pelvic exams, prenatal and postnatal checkups, basic care of cuts and minor injuries and other basic clinical procedures.

  • Counsel women on family planning issues, and prescribe and dispense the appropriate contraceptives to women who seek to be on contraception.

  • Monitor the weights and general health and nutrition of underweight women, girls, boys and babies in the Ugat ng Kalusugan program sites.

  • Provide women and girls with education and information regarding their health, especially their reproductive health.

Job Qualifications

Required:
  • Board certification in midwifery
  • College or university degree
  • Experience with home deliveries
  • Willing to work nights or weekends (with compensation) if necessary
  • Highly organized and detail oriented
  • Enthusiastic, flexible and good-humored

Desired:
  • At least one year of direct midwife work experience

Send cover letter and resume to ami@rootsofhealth.org by March 10, 2012.

Sunday, February 5, 2012

Our Little Terrorist


Luke is now nearly 14 months old and I’ve pretty much been tired and sleep deprived for nearly 14 months and about two weeks. (It was so annoying when people told me to get rest while I could before Luke was born because I was so huge, bloated, had back pain and was just so uncomfortable that I was totally not getting any rest).

Marcus and I missed the sleep training boat for a few reasons. We live in a one-bedroom house, so sleep training would have been really hard because we wouldn’t have been able to leave Luke alone in his room, or be in a different room to be able to tolerate letting him self-soothe. We also didn’t love the idea of leaving a baby to cry, although I have heard that the more modern forms of sleep training don’t actually just leave a baby to bawl his eyes out.

The biggest reason for our sleep training fail is that we totally were just too lazy, exhausted and undisciplined to do it. Luke naps and starts out the night in his crib, but when he cries in the middle of the night and I nurse him, it is just so much easier to let him stay in bed with us for the rest of the night than to have to stay awake and get back out of bed to put him back in his crib. When he is fussy for some reason, or has a fever, it is easier to monitor him and pat him back to sleep when he’s lying right beside us than if we have to keep getting up to check on him.

With that said, I am so tired of not sleeping and I often wish we’d put in the effort to make this sleeping thing happen. Some very dear friends of mine have their babies on fantastic routines and they give me tips on how they did it, but so far those tips haven’t worked very well for us. I think it’s really too late for Luke now.

I do think (hope!) that soon he will not be waking at night for milk because he is getting lots of solid food and he should be able to make it through the night. But even if we’re not woken up for food, whenever Luke is in bed with us, his kicking, squirminess and acrobatics make sleeping somewhat unsafe. After particularly bad nights, Marcus greets Luke in the morning by saying “Good morning my little terrorist.” I recently saw a diagram on facebook detailing several co-sleep scenarios. I wanted to find the source of the photo and an internet search led me to the blog How To Be a Dad. The site is HYSTERICAL. Seriously. So funny. Check it out.

I want to share my favorite of the sleep positions they feature:



This is one of Luke's favorites.


He's also very good at jazz hands.



Luke doesn't really do this one but I think it is funny so wanted to include it.



Luke does this one all the time. Punches too. Marcus and I both sleep with our backs turned to him now. 



Luke is constantly kicking his legs so this one is a regular in our bed as well.



We don't actually have a very comfortable couch so this one hasn't happened yet but I think whoever got to go to the couch would actually get better sleep...



I frequently wake up to find Luke sitting up in bed staring at me. But then he usually grins and crawls over to slobber on me and then all is forgiven from the sleepless night before...